Introduction
Buying an engagement ring is tricky. The stakes are high: You need to pick the right diamond and create a ring that she'll love forever. But if you do your homework, think about her personal style, and consider your budget, you can buy a ring that will make your fiancée feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
Do your homework.
When it comes to buying a ring, there are many factors to consider: the style of the ring, its setting and mounting, who it's for. And if you're like me (you're not), you'll probably want to do some research before heading out into the world of engagement rings.
If your girlfriend already wears a lot of jewelry (and if she doesn’t, maybe ask yourself why), then shopping for an engagement ring becomes a bit easier. You can use her other accessories as inspiration when looking for something that suits her taste and style—and gives us both an idea about what kind of look she prefers in general. If she tends toward simple designs with minimal adornment, then go with something that places more emphasis on structure and form than on elaborate flourishes or embellishments. A classic round solitaire set in yellow gold would likely work well here; just be sure not to go overboard with unnecessary details such as side stones or engravings!
Figure out her general style.
Once you've got a sense of her general style, start looking at engagement rings that match. If she wears a lot of jewelry, go heavy on the stones. If she wears less and prefers simple designs, go with something minimal—or even simpler still: an engagement ring that looks like a wedding band.
If your girlfriend is into fashion and makeup, consider an engagement ring with clear crystals or diamonds set in platinum. These will be sure to catch the light at any angle and make her look absolutely stunning when she shows off her new bling!
Think about what she wears most often.
When buying a ring for your girlfriend, it's important to think about what her style is. If she wears a lot of jewelry, she might want something that's more subtle and understated. On the other hand, if she wears a lot of rings, then it might be best to get something unique like an engagement ring with multiple diamonds set around it or even just a single gemstone—but since you'll be spending so much on the ring itself it would make sense if this were something really special and memorable.
What's her lifestyle?
This is a question you'll want to think about before you start looking at rings. Of course, her lifestyle isn't everything—you can't know what every aspect of her life is like without having met her yet. But it's still important to keep in mind because it can help you figure out what kind of ring she will wear and whether or not she needs one that can be worn for sports.
If she's active and spends a lot of time in the gym, then maybe buy one with an extra-sturdy setting so that it won't bend out of shape when she's lifting weights or doing aerobics or something similar. If she spends all day behind a desk typing away on her computer, then maybe get something more delicate since she probably won't be doing anything too strenuous with this ring anyway!
Does she wear a lot of jewelry?
If your partner wears a lot of jewelry, she may not want to wear her engagement ring on top of all her other rings. This could be the case if she already wears a lot of jewelry or if she is planning to purchase more in the future. You can also consider how many pieces of jewelry she has purchased over the years and how much money she has spent on them.
If your partner doesn't wear a lot of jewelry, however, it's likely that you will want to find something that stands out more than what she already wears. This could mean choosing a unique stone or setting as well as purchasing multiple rings rather than just one.
Consider your budget.
Budget is one of the most important factors when buying an engagement ring. If you don’t have a budget, then there’s no way to know whether or not you’re getting a good deal. You can easily find yourself paying more than what you can afford because of the pressure to buy something nice and beautiful.
You should also make sure that your partner knows what your budget is before he or she starts shopping for rings with you. Otherwise, it might be tempting for him or her to spend more money than necessary on their choice of ring. This can cause tension between the two of you and ruin any chances at building a strong marriage together in the future!
What are the 4 C's of diamonds?
The 4 C’s of diamonds are color, clarity, cut and carat. The last one is straightforward: Carat refers to the size of a diamond (more on that below). As for the first three, let's talk about each in turn.
Color - A diamond’s color is graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow). You will hear your jeweler refer to fancy colored diamonds as such because they aren't truly white or clear. They're actually tinted with other colors like green or blue. Clarity - The clarity refers to how smooth and blemish-free a diamond is. A flawless diamond will have no visible flaws within it at 10X magnification while an SI1 has minor blemishes that can only be seen under 10X magnification by an expert eye. Cut - The cut refers to how symmetrical and well proportioned a stone is when viewed head-on(the crown), table down(the pavilion), etc., but it also includes all other measurements taken from different point-of-views
What shape should you choose?
There are many different shapes to choose from, and they all have their own appeal. Your partner’s personality will help you decide what shape is best. For example, if she’s on the shy side but still likes to show off her style, then a round or princess cut may be best for her.
But if your partner is more outgoing and adventurous, then choosing something like a marquise or pear-shaped diamond would be a good choice.
No matter what shape you choose though, remember that it should enhance your partner’s features in some way (and preferably complement them rather than overpower them). This means that if she has small hands and long fingers then the ring should fit snugly without obstructing those fingers at any point; whereas if she has petite fingers but large knuckles then maybe opt for something more delicate instead of chunky rings with lots of detail on them
Get specific about the diamond you want.
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Find out what she likes. When you’re looking for an engagement ring, it’s easy to get caught up in the details of diamond cut and carat weight. But make sure you take a step back and consider how your partner feels about this purchase—and why she might be hesitating to agree to it.
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Know your budget—and stick to it! As exciting as it is to buy an engagement ring, there can also be some pressure on both you and her if money is tight while life continues onward full speed ahead (or vice versa). The key here? Do not let emotions get in the way of practicality! It's tempting during times like these when we want nothing more than our loved ones' happiness above all else... but remember: saving money now will ensure that both parties are happy with their purchase later down the line when things settle down again; after all, there may come a day when neither one will want anything more than just each other's company anyway.
Choose a metal type and color for the ring.
Choose a metal type and color for the ring.
The most common engagement ring metals are gold, white gold, rose gold, and platinum. Gold comes in a range of colors including yellow, white and brown; platinum is considered to be more durable than other metals used for engagement rings; and rose gold is a good choice for people with allergies because it's hypoallergenic. If you're concerned about nickel allergy (for example if you have an allergy to jewelry that contains copper or nickel), then avoid white gold because it does contain these elements.
Take inspiration from her jewelry collection and personal style.
You can also take inspiration from her jewelry collection and personal style. If you're looking for a ring that matches her style, ask yourself what kind of diamonds she likes or how she wears her hair. For example, if you know that your girlfriend prefers smaller stones and classic pieces, go with something simple like this solitaire diamond engagement ring.
If there's no time to visit the store together (or even if there is), check out her Instagram account and look at pictures of the clothes she wears on a daily basis; ask friends who've seen them in real life what they thought about them; or talk to salespeople where they shop at local boutiques.
Conclusion
Hopefully, you're now a little more prepared to go out there and buy an engagement ring. It's not an easy thing to do by any means, but it's also a pretty exciting time in your life! As we said above, the best way to avoid buyer's remorse is simply by knowing what you're getting into before you start making any purchases. By doing the research on what kind of style she likes and figuring out her lifestyle beforehand, it'll make choosing one much easier when it comes time for those big decisions. So good luck out there!
